Your peers with their children!! why?

Between the sword of society and the hammer of the judge, we live in a society that carries ideas and beliefs that have nothing to do with reason, religion, or even humanity.

However, these ideas take up a large part of society's thinking and have a deep root in the hearts of most of its members, and one of these ideas is that the girl reaches the age of marriage without marriage.

As soon as a girl reaches a certain age, and sometimes less, she finds herself surrounded by society's eyes, hurtful words, and illogical phrases, and sometimes blamed on her, Why!! Because she did not get married, as if it was the only way for her to live in this society and that without him she would have no value or status. Whether she desires it or not, she has another ambition, she has other dreams, etc. All of that is not seen.

The girl finds herself living under pressure in all respects, even from her family, so she has no choice but to search for a groom in various ways, or to agree to the first person who knocks on her door, even if he does not have the characteristics that are compatible with her or that she dreams of. Rather, she must overlook even his shortcomings, leaving her dreams and aspirations, and sometimes even her studies.

All of this is an escape from the pressure of society and its sword, which directs its stabs at her at all times and places. They do not leave room for her without directing some poisonous and harmful words.

After all that, the girl finds herself living a life that is not of her choice. Some of them adapt and try to face difficulties to escape from society and the title of (divorced), and some of them are shocked by the bitter reality and life that can be classified as everything but life.

She finds herself mired in a whirlpool of problems and conflicts on her own, not society nor anyone who applauded her for this marriage, and she has no way out of all that except the judge's sledgehammer.

In this crowd of random choices, we find ourselves forgetting that marriage is a stage of life, a person may or may not pass through, so his life does not depend on it, nor does it continue, because he was created for a higher purpose than that.

However, the process of educating women specifically in our society is based on qualifying the girl that the stage of marriage is the defining point in her life, so this point turns into life itself, she finds that the type of her studies, the form of her dress, the way she speaks, And her obsession with the details of her features that must be in line with what society likes, specifically men here. All This effort is a sacrifice to the immortal idol of society, which is (marriage).

We do not exaggerate when we say that society is based on considering the man as its centerpiece, as you will find that many cases of stigmatization that afflict women are linked to him, where, for example, a divorced woman is not accepted in society because usually when a man decides to marry, he is not associated with a divorced woman, but rather seeks another. who did not go through the experience of marriage.

While we will find in our heritage that divorced women did not go through this stigma, but rather they were accepted, and the percentage of engagement with them may be more than others who did not go through the experience of marriage, because they are more experienced and knowledgeable in managing the family.

For this question here, who is responsible for turning the state of divorce into a stigma that haunts women, and prevents them from ending a marriage in which they do not enjoy comfort?

Here we do not present our words on the basis that we are trying to destroy the institution of marriage, but rather we present our words on the basis of caution against establishing families that produce abnormal individuals for society, so dear reader, wait in judging us.